The Hottest Casual Dating Terms to Use in 2019

The most exciting part of casual dating is the opportunity to take a walk on the wild side and try new things with your dates. The casual scene is always changing and there are plenty of brand new ways to have naughty fun and new things to learn. To whet your appetite we’re going to take a look at just a few of the hottest casual dating terms to use in 2019.

Whether you’re meeting up with someone you’ve matched with on one of the many casual dating websites or someone you met at a party for a quick rendezvous, don’t be surprised if you hear or encounter one or more of the following terms. Maybe you’re already familiar with one or two of them.

Lining

What is lining you may be asking? Basically, it’s a way to combine the convenience of a cab app with the excitement of a chance hookup. When you order a taxi using an app like Uber or Lyft, they offer an option for cab sharing with a stranger.

If you’re looking to proposition someone you’ve met up with and avoid a little awkwardness of beating around the bush, you only need to show your date the option to bring a friend and invite them to tap on the screen. Hey presto! You’ve avoided fumbling over your words and made your intentions clear.

Do: Make the cab ride sexy Don’t: Start having actual sex while you’re still in the cab

Making A Hasty Sexit

We’ve all been there. You and your date have been talking in a cafe, at a party or a fancy restaurant and things are going well. So well in fact, that you’ve both got the urge to suddenly get out of there right at that moment to get busy in private.

Where you go from there is up to you. The bathroom, your place or his/hers. The world is truly your oyster. This is a flirty and fun new trend and when choosing the right moment (and of course being with the right person) you can make any regular date into an exciting and sexy occasion.

Do: Make it an adventurous sexit! Don’t: Sexit when your or his/her parents are present

Sunday Night Fever

Have you ever wondered why you suddenly get loads of matches on a Sunday night? That’s because of what some people have started calling Sunday Night Fever. Sunday night is probably most people’s least favorite time to organize a date. As most people don’t make plans for this time, many end up using that time to check out potential matches online.

This is not ideal sometimes as (for women especially) you can be flooded with matches all of a sudden at a time when you’re not really going to want to engage. However, it does also present a chance for spontaneity. Sunday Night Fever could offer you a golden opportunity for a quick encounter if you’re both living locally enough.

Do: Try a spontaneous Sunday night meetup Don’t: Explore Sunday Night Fever if you’ve got a big presentation the next day

Sexting the Waters

Sexting the waters is not everyone's favorite part of dating. This is the term used for the many messages people (often women) receive from matches that are angling (albeit politely) for sexts.

These are often messages like “so what you up to now”, “send me a picture of what you’re doing”, “what are you wearing” etc. Obviously, if this happens occasionally it’s fine, especially if you’re into it at the time. However, too many of these sorts of texts and you might start to wonder if it’s time to ghost your match.

Do: Choose your sexting the waters moments carefully Don’t: Send dick pics (unless you’re asked to)

Freeclimbing

Don’t worry, there’s not too much physical effort involved with this new trend. Freeclimbing rather simply refers to when you match with someone and do a little online digging around on them. You then find a couple of social media profiles and find yourself climbing the results to further and further back in their history. Let’s face it, we’ve all done it.

This can, of course, be a little risky as well as exciting. After all, One accidental click that sets off a social media notification will give the whole game away.

Do: Find a juicy fact about your date to plan your conversations Don’t: Get caught in the act (this is called “printing”)

Remember, there’s always lots happening out there for you to explore and try, as well as new words to learn. The casual dating scene is rarely boring. If you want to try it for yourself then take a look at our reviews of the best casual dating websites and find your perfect match. Which of these 2019 casual dating behaviors have you experienced?